You can see things differently.

oh, you... you seem, uh..
I don't know, you seem different.

Well, certain things are in remission, Mr. Humphrey,
not the least of which is my former attitude.
Going through something like I did changes you.
You can see things differently.

like... what..  ?

LIke how the keys to someone else's happiness are not necessarily the same ones as for your own.